Blog

Insights through words aimed at helping you make an impact.

Insights through words aimed at making an impact.

Addressing difficult subjects in your relationships

The goal of sharing truth or engaging in conflict with someone in your personal community should be to improve the relationship and encourage the other person to consider if a change is best for them and your relationship.

This type of honest dialogue, when done appropriately, creates deep connection. Deep connection creates long term mutually beneficial relationships capable of withstanding difficulty.

Follow this model to help you improve the quality of your interactions over subjects that might cause conflict.

Read More
Jonathan, I know him too, how did he treat you?

The world is more interconnected than you know. The people you know, know people. And they just might figure out they both know you. And when they do. They will talk. For example when you are applying for a job, there is a good chance research will be done about you and not just work stuff. Trust me I get those calls about people I know often.

Please do everything you can to give them good things to talk about.

You can accomplish that by treating all people well. Do this first because it is the right thing to do but secondly because it is wise to leave a good impression. You never know who that person knows and in what future context you might cross paths with someone who knows you or knows about you. Wouldn’t it be nice to know that whatever they know is probably pretty good?

Here is an approach to building more GENUINE relationships. You can do these things to leave people feeling good about interacting with you.

Read More
What I learned from THE GAME

We should all live like we believe that neither success nor failure are permanent. That both are more enjoyable when experienced with others. And if you want to succeed more often, determine your strengths and work at them until you can execute the fundamentals of them flawlessly. #teambuilding #winning #teams #strategy

Read More
jonathan couser